Unfortunately, I like to dwell on the past. By the time I come to my senses, it’s too  late. Especially when it comes to dating. It’ll  be so close to getting to that next level. All of a sudden, I’ll  fumble the ball in the end zone. 10 out of 10 It’ll  be my own doing from just dwelling on the past. I can only think about failed relations. Dwelling can also,fortunately, conquer good opportunities, from gigs, side hustles, and even dishing out good advice. I tend to stay on the right now instead  of the future. I like to keep my finger on the pulse, but I have no problem getting hip to whatever is poppin, whether  I disagree or not.